Ask Lliandrin

I have gotton tons of email from my readers and a lot of them are questions. Apparently since I write about sex that means I know about sex. Well, luckily for you, I do. I have decided to start printing the emails I get with the good questions on my site so hopefully we can all learn a little something. Also feel free to email me your thoughts and comments on my answers. This way the site will be a lot more interactive and become more like I envision it, a great community of people with a healthy interest in their sexuality. For a faster response to your questions or concerns please visit our message board and post there. I can answer there faster than I can update the site. ~Lliandrin

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I Want My Guy To Lick My Pussy

You write a lot about guys going down. I would love my boyfriend to do that a lot more. Any ideas?
Beccalynx

Beccalynx, Great question! First of all it’s been my experience that when a guy is hesitant to head downtown a lot of it is the vibe that we are putting out there. If we are not 100% comfortable with that area of our bodies that insecurity comes across to our men. They may not be quick to bury their faces in our snatches if they sense we would be uncomfortable or nervous about it. I recommend exploring your pussy yourself first. Touch it, caress it, look at it in a mirror. We all masturbate but a lot of us aren’t “intimate” with our nether regions. I would even taste yourself if your up for that. Just slide a finger into your slit and run it up and down the insides of your lips until it’s nice and wet then stick it in your mouth. Once you realize that the way you taste and smell isn’t gross then you’ll open up a lot more. Once you’re past that hurdle and your man still isn’t giving out oral love, TALK to him. Not a serious, “feelings” talk that’ll put him on the defensive but a seductive whisper when you’re between the sheets. Something like, “I’d love it if you kissed my pussy,” and then gently guide his head where you want it. This should work like magic. If your guy still won’t do it then it is time to break out some serious talking. Find out what’s wrong, why doesn’t he want to? Maybe he’s nervous, doesn’t know what he’s doing etc. If he’s just a selfish prick, dump him. Chances are though there’s underlying causes and you should be able to get to the bottom of it and work it out. Also let him know that if expects that mind blowing blow job then he’s gotta give up the tongue. Good luck!!

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Lliandrin's Writing Offensive?

I am assuming that you’re a woman but a lot of the stuff you write a lot of women would find offensive, what gives?
Nadaman203

First of all I believe that everyone should be able to freely express their sexuality, their fantasies, their bodies. (Of course only as long as what they do doesn’t harm anyone else) The content of my stories varies widely from the hoplessly romantic to the down and out raunchy. I write so many different types of erotica because there are so many people out there looking for it. What really does the trick for one person may not do anything at all for the next person. It may even, in fact, anger or repulse them. Personally I love anal sex, especially when it’s hard and not so nice (however always consensual between my hubby and me) lots of the women I know however won’t even consider it and have told me that it’s nasty and they can’t believe I like it. There are a lot of things that I don’t particularly enjoy writing about, incest, nonconsensual sex, etc. I do it for the readers. If you don’t want to read the stories, don’t there’s always a description for each story so if you run across something that you don’t like, don’t read it. That’s the great thing about the written word, I can write anything I want and you choose whether or not to read it. It’s not like unwanted spam porn flashing onto your screen it’s always a conscious decision by the reader to read it. Also I fully expect people to be offended by some of what I write and that’s fine. Hopefully there is enough of a variety in my stories that there will be something for everyone. Women as a whole may like the sweet, romantic stuff better, but you can bet your ass that we are kinky as hell and that nasty stuff is good every now and then too!

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Fantasy Lowdown

What is your biggest fantasy?
Andylinn21

This is the hardest question! I am so into fantasies and fantasizing that it is really difficult to pick just one. It would have to be a threesome with my hubby and another woman. Her and I would be all into each other and he would watch until we invited him to join. He would come up behind me and fuck me while I ate her out. Yup that’s a good one!

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